Relationship Disaster in the Philippines – A Filipina”s Story


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Relationship Disaster in the Philippines – A Filipina”s Story
In this video I interview Curly a filipina who had a relationship disaster, this is her story!
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  1. Relationship Disaster in the Philippines – A Filipina”s Story
    In this video I interview Curly a filipina who had a relationship disaster, this is her story!
    Disclosure:
    Listed below are my affiliate links which means I get a commission on every sign up which equals more coffee for me 🙂 Thank you guys!
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    Great way to invest a little, get $5 when you sign up: http://bit.ly/3bjkf5h
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    Sign up for Youtube Membership for great benefits and exclusive videos: https://bit.ly/3eauJ8q
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    About me: My name is Teacher Gio to my students and Gio to my friends. I left the USA over 4 years ago to travel SE Asia and live a better life. Follow my journey as I travel around The Philippines reviewing different islands and cities.
    My channel: Reviewing different islands and cities in The Philippines as places to visit or live, condo and apartment reviews, dating advice, how to travel and live inexpensively in The Philippines.

  2. Sad to hear this but as with most relationships, it’s usually the guy who loses the most. And this coming from a guy whose Mom married a gold digger and he took her paid off house after she died!

  3. Thanks Gio enjoyed the video she definitely was not treated the way she should have been it was one thing for him to break up on her and pack her stuff up while she had took her child back but then to get back with her and more or less just left her high and dry That is no way to treat no one if I was her I would have probably beat his eyeballs yet it definitely was not right the way he traded that lady no one deserves to be treated that way sounds like to me he was just a user and he was using her for what he could get and then he would get tired of it probably with another one while he was messing with her as well and that’s not the way you treat people I feel very sorry for her

  4. Every story has another side, right?
    This is sketchy story due to previous children. The boyfriend side and father of children story are mia. Perhaps children have multiple fathers

  5. Not making excuses but if he is a 33 year old U.S. military veteran with a 100% disability rating from the Department of Veterans Affairs (DVA) his decision making ability / judgement may be impacted / impaired by medication he receives from the DVA.

  6. The biggest mistake I hear over and over is, especially from Filipina ladies, they become attached to fast. I understand the obvious reason, of course, but I wish they would take the dating game a little more serious and develop a friendship first. Because after the initial excitement wears off, what’s left is the friendship. And if the friendship isn’t strong enough, sex ain’t carry you into old age. Just a thought.

  7. Is this the “other side” of the story we heard before?? That would be really funny. She said she was clinging to a bed, sounds familiar. His side of the story was quite different. But I do not know if this is the same story.

  8. I think this American made one mistake and that is getting back together with her for one week. He gave her money and lodging to move to a new place and did not throw her out with her child in the middle of the night. Overall, it was a good breakup.

  9. Thanks for bringing us that story Gio. We have all heard the stories about Filipinas looking for the golden ticket. We often overlook that many Filipinas are taking advantage of as well and for some foreigners relationships are nothing more than leases and they have no trouble trading in the new model for the old one which in and by itself is not necessarily despicable, as long as there is full disclosure and no false promises are made from the outset. Not many Filipinas will go for that obviously, and so they are being deceived. Not saying that describes the manchild from California. Maybe the responsibility of taking on two kids wasn’t for him. Apparently he went into this much less seriously than she did and on the upside she only wasted a few months with the wrong guy. Whatever his reasons, he should have manned up and finished what he couldn’t continue like a standup guy, not like a coward. Very sorry this happened to this sweet girl.

  10. She is beautiful and has a kind soul. She smiles and laughs to hide her pain. If she is patient, she will find a like minded man who will sweep her and her children off there feet.

  11. Lol, “Put it together” what exactly does that mean?

    A recent dengue infection may provide some immunity to the 2020 problem.  Some people say that is not the solution.

    Manaus, population 2 million, in Brazil, may have has reached herd immunity  after about a 60% infection rate, after mass burials. Do you want this solution where you live?

  12. it’s easy to judge others when you’re not in their shoes. He has a 100% disability rating. He’s probably dealing with a lot of issues that she’s unaware of. Perhaps he was doing the best he knew at the time to end a relationship.

  13. Over the past few months, some American states have closed their borders to other states within the USA.
    Lol, “Put it together” what exactly does that mean?

    A recent dengue infection may provide some immunity to the 2020 problem.  Some people say that is not the solution.
    Manaus, population 2 million, in Brazil, may have has reached herd immunity  after about a 60% infection rate, after mass burials. Do you want this solution where you live?

  14. Yep good video, shame the girls been messed around i know there is always two sides to a story but just be honest with these girls if things are not working out tell her, dont be making excuses!! Im sure she will find someone else lets hope she has learnt something from this and hey lifes not perfect we all make mistakes along the way!!

  15. Gio, I feel bad for her. But, stocking someone that broke up with you, is obviously not a good idea.

    I hope she understands it’s not her fault, the guy has some serious mental health problems.

  16. His probably just worried if he broke up she wouldn’t leave the house so he packed her things…and that what happen as he thought. its a relationship problem between them, not defending him he probably worried about her having a child and his only 33 years old. I feel srry for her its hard to go through this but also i kinda understand him his either looking for the right girl or his young and wanna have fun before he settle down and have a family. I am also 33 years old so just sharing my perspective of course if he really cared and love her he would be with her, that is what love is~!

  17. so she was clinging on to a 100% disabled guy that wanted to get rid of a crazy weird psycho lady and said he was going back to the USA so she than goes to break into his house and confronts him of lying to her and demand him to take her back. So he takes her back in order to scheme a new plan to get rid of her………… weird as hell. A Canadian friend told me when he was 19 yo (now 16 years ago) he and his friends went to the phillipines, his half filipino friend was going to meet his family and his grandma hooked him up with his 14 yo crazy female cousin and also he and the rest of the friends also were mathced with his other female cousins the could not get rid off. So they said they went back home but moved from manila to cebu to proceed the vacation. I can understand; the filipino families think: hook them in and be set for life. The grandma went from the slums to a big villa thanks to her daughter sending all the money she made as a shop assistant in Toronto.

  18. She is a stalker. Remind me of a Filipina who demanded an explanation why I’m not interested in her. Some of them just won’t accept a “thanks but not interested.” I feel sorry for the guy probably has some issues! He should have been more direct. Hope he learned from it.

  19. It’s okay experience always lead us to be a better person. Nobody is perfect in this world when we Love we normally get hurt But at least we learned a lesson from it. There are many people in this world with different attitude and personality. To all Filipina out there, don’t be change from being a Good person to bad. Perhaps, be Good and observant at all Times. It always takes time to get the best. Choose wisely. Stay beautiful and nice. God bless

  20. Hey I used to live in Bacolod Barangay Villamonte for 6 years, sorry to hear the plight of that lady, it was a one way romance from her part, she fell in love and moved in with him too quickly and the guy realised he wasn’t ready to take responsibility of supporting her kids even though he made her believe that he didn’t mind that she had two kids , I feel sorry for the kids too, first they meet someone who shower them with gifts and the like,. and now nothing, they must be disappointed even at a young age. He may have come to another conclusion that ok she’s a bar girl so there’s a certain stigma attached, he was just playing the field to date as many Filipinas as he can, that’s why he left her but didn’t leave Dumaguete even if there’s lots of expats living there and the surrounding areas, he will still stand out like a sore thumb, plus Filipinas are well connected so they’ll just broadcast it if they see him around town, the moral of the story should be “‘ nowhere to run nowhere to hide”

  21. “He’s from California” – that explains the behavior.

    “California – the land of fruits and nuts. Where every nut is a little fruity, and every fruit is a little nutty.” – Archie Bunker

  22. Women in the Philippines can’t win they get a rough deal from most of the men in their lives. They end up getting dumped and being the soul breadwinner supporting the children. And can end up in a string of relationships with philippinos or foriegnors.

  23. No relationship break-up is easy, but I think it’s important to have openness and honesty. I know there is this fear of breaking up with a Filipina being harder than in the West and an increased chance she’ll “go loco”, but a decent man would still try to make the break-up as smooth as possible. We weren’t there and we don’t know their situation. We don’t know if he had reason to worry about what she might do or not. We know he also provided for her during the break-up, so he wasn’t totally heartless. Maybe things just could have been handled a bit better and he could have made sure that she knew the reason why, so she wasn’t going crazy searching for answers. I wish her all the best and hope that this painful lesson helps her grow and she has much better luck next time 🙂

  24. I have 2 thoughts. Young guy moved the daughter in and after a week realized he was in way over his head. And thought 2, there are 2 sides to every story. Climbing security fences, forcing into room and locking the door. Ya, he planned his escape.

  25. Sounds like he kept trying to find other girls and couldn’t get them and he would go back to Her. When he couldn’t get the other women that’s why he kept moving her out and Letting her come back… Is probly on a different island somewhere not in California

  26. Hey Gio. Enjoyed the interview, it’s good to hear the filipino views of expats…Do more interviews. My heart goes out to Curly… hang in there, Mr. right is out there looking for someone just like you.

  27. She “climbed a wall” also “locked herself in his bedroom”… Filipina crazy or jealously is something you can’t imagine… You just have to experience it to understand LoL… I actually love it… She might have gotten a raw deal but gents pay attention because she gives you a real perspective on how deeply these amazing women can love.

  28. Hello Gio and obviously the guy acted irresponsibly at his age and this was a loss for him! I feel sorry that Bacolod is where she needs to be with her kids and that the Government cannot even allow a mom to return! That is so unacceptable! But I do wish her the best and the important thing is that she didn’t do anything wrong and should just be the same as she is.

  29. please what are we talking about the guy is 33 years old do u think he wanted to take care of the girl and her kids ? when he said to return the girl she should have done that….she was being taken care of in Bacolod…and this guy was 100 times better then the father who im sure never gave a centavo …so unfair to hear foreigners portrayed like crap when almost always these girls with kids gets nothing from the real father

  30. I met a Philipina doctor a long time ago when I went to her surgery. She was very flirtatious with me, I was shocked, I told her when I lift my right arm above my head it hurts !!! She said ” well dont do it then” [email protected]#[email protected] she then said lay down on the bench, I asked why? She replied
    I want to sweep up. !!! I left immediately, I walked outside still shocked. A Filipino guy came up to me and asked if I had seen any Police around here? I said No why?
    He then robbed me !!!!

  31. People sometimes make poor decisions. Seems like some questionable behavior on both sides. Better to bear a little tension associated with a break up than stay together and delay the inevitable. I hope they both move on and learn from their experience. I wish them well.

  32. There is “her” story, then there is “his” story. And the truth lies somewhere in the middle. But I’m noticing alot of you “white knights” commenting and it makes me laugh at you. 🤣 He got what he wanted, and she got what she wanted. But both parties made mistakes, and it wasn’t meant to last forever. Learn from it and move on.

  33. Curery seems like a nice person and I wish her well. She is a woman with two children and not so young, she needs to look at what is her options. Maybe she can find a 60 plus man who can accept her fully. If she insists apon a a man who is not in his retiement then she will have the same results.,

  34. Gio, Find the guy, try to get the other side of the Story. Relationships can be tough, sounds like she is better off without him. Hopefully Curly finds someone right for her.

  35. yeah, i am thinking after she said about the ptsd, that there was no way it could be stable relationship. that is a red flag to consider in looking for a stable partner… she is very cute, i would just give more thought in picking your next partner. I am sure he is out there !!!! I wish her the best, she has a good soul !!!!

  36. I’m pretty sure the guy would have a little bit different story. Bottom line is, he found himself playing Mr. mom raising a kid or two, while she went to work. I’m sure that’s not what he signed up for. Who would want that? I’m sure the guy tried to break up with her nicely, and she wouldn’t take it. So he moved her out and gave her money, then she climbed the fence and locked her self in his room. That is super psycho behavior. So he hung around for a week until he could plan his escape, probably went and rented another place got himself set up, and just pieced out. Sounds to me like she left him no choice and she was crazy psycho. Doesn’t sound like too bad of a guy to me, he rented a place for her and left her money. Not like he left her high and dry

  37. Seems like it’s the nice people who get screwed over… the guys “sounds” a little immature for his age. That kinda of crap gives us former military guys a bad rap.

  38. Very interesting interview Gio. I am shocked at how many comments are sympathizing with this guy. Clearly he must have issues and is likely genuinely suffering and may even be neglecting to take his medication – all speculation. However this sweet girl’s only crime was to fall in love and show a little passion that anyone who has known true love and betrayal should readily understand.

  39. Why would a 33yr old man want to settle down with a woman with 2 kids. He just realised that he settled right away and then saw that he had better options. Only thing is the guy didnt have the courage to break it off with her like a man. Hopefully the guy learnt a lesson and can also look for better looking women with no kids. After all a young man in the Philippines will be many girls dream (not a grampa looking to reboot his life)

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