Ed and Rose: What Did We Learn?

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  2. I can’t tell you how long I’ve been waiting for someone familiar with life in the PH to analyze this! My wife and I talk about this show all the time. 🙂 Edit: Sent you a donation to help with production costs. Thanks again!

  3. You apparently didn’t watch the whole series. He lied to her & said he was 3″ taller than he was. It wasn’t in her mind’s eye as you said, it was in her ear.

  4. The whole issue is honesty. It has nothing to do with first meeting in person. It has to do with embellishments from the start. Or, being disingenuous by saying what you mean or letting your yes mean yes and your no mean no. If people were honest in the first place, a successful LDR is very possible. But, as a detective I see this all the time. False hopes and lies from the beginning.

  5. I don’t watch TV, but honestly, who starts a relationship online with lies? Vlogs about the Philippines gives a glims about what’s going on there, but everybody makes their own opinion after visiting the country // Ari JJ Jaatinen (retiree in the Philippines at the end of 2021)

  6. That show is rather contrived and they keep coming back to the same people which is boring. Rose dodged a bullet as Ed repeatedly lied to her, maybe she had an agenda of her own but he was deceitful from the start. There was another guy who was in his 50’s and was marrying and 18 y/o Filipina and he was a control freak. I wish 90 Day fiance did more to highlight the plusses and minuses of these relationships but instead they seem to focus on nut cases. Thanks Reekay for giving us good information.

  7. Good video Reekay, and you’re right, honesty is the best policy. It’s also true she was dishonest with him about her sexual orientation, and also about contacting him after they broke up. Hopefully, Ed has learned a valuable lesson from this experience, and I think it was a blessing in disguise that Rose broke up with him.

  8. You Gotta feel for Ed. He keeps punching, but he has horrible social skills. Some of the stuff he says is very cringy. The funny thing is, they have shown pictures of him when he was younger and he is a good looking guy.

  9. She only contacted him on valentines days because she was looking for gifts 🎁 plus she could be a full blown lesbian just looking for a meal ticket

  10. I think he should have “clocked” 500 hours at his local K-TV bar before meeting in person….classic rookie move by saying “I Love You” within the first hour (and asking for trouble). Imo.

  11. They started out with alot of misconceptions as to who each other are and what they look like. Your right bro. 10 years ago your would almost never see a filipina wearing a bikini on the beach unless they were ” open minded” but now you see then everywhere so social media has done its thing. I mean bro lets just be real here can we? Hes really out of shape and she has an agenda. This “”relationship” was doomed from the beginning.

  12. This is almost like exploiting a disabled person tbh. It’s hard to watch this guy, he is like a child inside. It’s TLC so nuff said.

    Is this a normal sounding accent for a Filipina? Do they usually speak like this? 🙂

  13. Fellow bros. I wanna say something you may notlike but it needs to be said. Be a MAN. Be straight up front with ANY woman you meet from day 1. #2 guys get yourself in shape so you can be on a level playing field. Just like you have a pick of filipinas they have a pic of YOU your not the only foreigner they can choose from so NEVER EVER think youve got the upper hand in south Asia or for any country for that matter

  14. Outstanding video in the way you explained everything. You gave outstanding advice to those wanting to meet somebody. As for the characters in this video I think he was playing her like a fiddle and hoping she would just accept him at his worst rather than reveal his poker hand as you said. My gut feeling tells me she was playing him as well only to get pregnant and then go back to her girlfriend leaving him with a lifetime of child support. This guy needs more than honesty check his first meetup he’s unshaven no glasses, why???? She took plenty of time to get all dolled up looking her best for him it’s a shame he didn’t show her the same respect as he did the interviewer post breakup.

  15. Looks awkward on both sides. He’s CREEPY looking like I’m all that. He’s not stocky, he’s fat. And he acts like a little boy in high school what a goober.

  16. BIG ED.
    Is a huge manipulator!
    He used Rose. Lied. Played games.
    Rose is now successful in the Philippines. A model. And taking care of family. I’m happy for her.
    Big fan of 90day.

  17. I saw most episodes of their “relationship” . Ed is pretty much clueless, is very inexperienced and extremely naive. There is no doubt in my mind he was totally set up by the production crew with the pig farm, rats and the like. Rose became very popular on her own after they broke up, which is a total mystery to me as I think she has a horrible personality, but this is a minority opinion.

  18. I appreciate that you used the show as a learning tool which you did well, I have never watched this kind of program because I feel it’s all staged for the drama and I do everything I can to remove drama from my life on TV and off

  19. So now you know girls , if you want to move on in life just become a lesbian . I think someone should tell this girl she can’t have babies with another woman , she seems like she can be quite aggressive , two sides to her i think .
    I don’t think wanting babies was the true reason , infact she may have been pleased he told her that so she could dump him without hurting his feelings with the real truth , also , she wasn’t 100% up front with him neither.

  20. #1 She is a nasty little thing. Noooooo
    I also wonder how she planned to have a kid with another Filipina?
    That one is bat shit crazy lol .
    And to think there are literally millions to choose from.
    Thanks for sharing Aloha

  21. Honestly I think she was looking for a man that was willing to stick his neck out for her and if you look at the guy obviously he ain’t got no damn neck so I think that was problem number one

  22. Ed was not forthcoming because of 2 reasons, the first is the scarcity mindset.and his ignorance about Filipinos and children. She reminds me of a bar girl and would not surprise me if it were not in her background. The sad reality is Filipinas lie, a lot! If you find one who doesn’t, marry her. For she is a rare gem.

  23. It was equally important for the girl to ask him in the very beginning whether he wants to have a kid or not if this was so important to her ! The fault was from both the sides.

  24. I couldn’t work on a show like that because they not helping just using people to make money.. i cant even think to watch that. I disagree that we can’t be friends after, i had 4 girls do the cut and over. All the rest i am still friends with including my x wife of 3 years. Yes honesty it the way to go, that’s what gets me in trouble in the USA. I don’t look at you much because I know life in Asia well. Good teaching you do

  25. I read the comments and I fully agree – Honesty and mutual agendas are a must.
    These 2 people do Not match by any aspect ; not by age, height, weight, sexual preferences, life experience , income, and of course – wanting kids.

  26. You are right on Reekay! I definitely need to meet with my Filipina before even think of becoming boyfried and girlfrien 🙂 Thanks for this video Reekay 🙂

  27. There’s only a handful of mistakes in the Phils….and the millions of people that repeat them…over …and over…. Thanks for saving me 10 hours…Great commentary.

  28. The bisexual/tibo/lesbian experience is the much bigger story…if you’re truly open minded to hearing experiences / desires…its 1/3 pluuuuuuusssssssss… Welcome to the Philippines SIR…more FUN NA PO! 😛 Enjoy

  29. He is a Dick! It is men like him that messed up for good men. He needs to be alone. I hope this experience turn her away from dating foreigners.

  30. You are so right. I been with my Filipina for 3years I go too see her and I came back to NYC we are planning to get married over there when I retire in 6 months for now we keep a beautiful relationship and repeat and most importantly we love each other very much and she has 2 kids which I love very much ♥

  31. With a Filipina, Honesty is Always the best policy. “The Truth will be reveal.” Don’t be sad though, because there’s always another beautiful Filipina right around the corner.

  32. Sadly he needed Constance reassurance which showed he has a very negative self concept. Just like naming himself Big Ed. Look at how many guys & vloggers in the PH don’t want kids and the girls/women will say its not important (perhaps they think over time she will get him to change his mind) and that becomes a reason for breakup.

  33. Very well said my friend, I agree 100% in your analysis of Ed’s mistakes. Communication, honesty, and compatibility is the beginning in having a relationship. Thank you for your videos.

  34. I always make it clear with the Filipinas i chat to that i can’t have kids anymore almost straight away, i already have 3 grown ups and after the 3rd child had a vasectomy so i guess that narrows my options in the Philippines.

  35. The best outfit he could find was a black T shirt – great first impression. This program appealed to the worst sides of people and was all staged trash.

  36. Hey Reekay my dear friend, Great topic. I saw a few episodes of Rose and Ed. He was really insulting to her family and culture. He really should have done his homework about the Philippines culture before he ever stepped on that plane. Thank you for sharing this awesome video my dear friend, please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you, Vi, and the rest of your beautiful family.😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  37. Your analysis is spot on Reekay. These two both made mistakes with Ed really making the more important or significant mistakes by not being honest and upfront with Rose. I think Ed knows he’s not the most attractive man so like a lot of men like that, they exaggerate, overcompensate, and leave out important things because they feel inferior to an attractive woman.

  38. I could only watch a few of them…..I would do the same thing and yell at the TV. I just couldn’t believe how dumb people are so I just stopped watching. The cringe factor was so horrible……..

  39. You’re good at this Reekay. You should do more of these as it was very entertaining. I don’t get how an older man can be so clueless but so many are and your advice might save someone’s life (literally).

  40. there is one more filipina/american couple that has been featured on the show as well. just as comical, just as pathetic. I have watched the vast majority of episodes. these producers choose the oddest matches they can find and then exploit the hell out of them. I do wonder what the compensation is from TLC.

  41. Ed just needs to lose some weight and he will gain his confidence back. He is kind and not bad looking actually. The mouthwash thing was a clue that the girl probably doesnt tske good care of her oral hygiene and has bad breath. Good luck, Ed. You deserve someone better. Much better. She’s not worth it.

  42. I watched the entire episodes. He was a miserable man hungry for love and she was a kind looking for opportunity. That was not love. They both looking to get something from each other.

  43. Most affection I get from my filipina, is hold hands. Oh yes, I forgot she likes to pinch me in public. We have been together for 6 months, before she goes to work kiss is always hiding in the house behind the curtain to kiss.

  44. She knows at his age she only has to spend 2 weeks with her then he has to go back his country for work. She is playing a game for riches, is my opinion.

  45. Like fishing for salmon in a Texas pond. Only religious family oriented men are compatible there. Less than 1% want the child-free agnostic lifestyle and most of them are Uni grads who date hot young guys. I found the Tarik and Hazel episodes very informative too. Fatuous love for Tarik (Hazel’s attractiveness) and Empty Love for Hazel (wanted a better life abroad). For Non-family Non-religious guys, it’s only short-time paid fun. Peace.

  46. Not sure how true it is but the one thing I heard about this TV relationship story with Ed and Rose was that Ed got most of the money from the show while this poor girl got like 15K. This is totally unacceptable with me, it’s actually sickening for this show to take advantage of someone in her situation.

  47. She was trying to exploit him and he was trying to exploit her. She had a valid point about him, however, I assure you she had her own hidden set of agendas, and it wasn’t based on any feelings of love for him.

  48. Hi Ricky good morning!nice your topic today,and i heard that rose mentioned that Edward required her to had an STD test!for me a big Yes!!!!thats important thing the man should do during first time to be together in her lady,not only filipina woman.Thats because to make sure that your woman is totally cleaned.And your the same also inorder both parties are fair.Thank you so much ricky mabuhay😃

  49. Wise words Reekay. There a lot of sappy foreigners out there that need to hear this. Regarding Ed, he is a 52 year old narcissist that thinks
    that the only way that he will get a girl is to lie about himself. And it backfired on him….

  50. As you know Reekay if a filipina woman is in her 20s and 30s and has never had children and you as an older expat become involved with them even if you make it clear you dont want any they will still get involved with you hoping to change your mind it will never work

  51. Henry you also have to realize this is a TV show, trust me the show has a script for Ed to play along with. She wanted babies while he didn’t, the show and Ed knew this………if he would’ve dropped the script and pushed this issue of not wanting babies during the first 3 months of chatting then she would’ve probably went own her way and no show would’ve been made. In my personal opinion the show and Ed used her, it’s to keep the show going while keeping her in the dark. Sadly it’s TLC’s way of making “90 Day Fiance” money for only them while on the back of this poor Filipina.

  52. Ha ha ha… I agree on what you say about the guy being misleading and her being rightful upset about it but….. I bet if he looked like Brett Pit, everithing would be forgiven 😂

  53. I think the real takeaway from watching a show like 90 day finance is to stay the heck off filipinocupid and stop meeting these women online, especially if it’s your 1st time going to the Philippines or if you’re retiring there permanently. It’s ok to get off the airplane single. It’s alright to arrive in the Philippines and not already be in a relationship. There is not much worse than the buyers remorse you get, when you finally meet a girl you’ve been talking to for 6 months or a year and you realize it may not work out, or something is off. Meanwhile you’re breaking your neck looking at all the other women walking past you that are prettier then the lady you’re with. You feel obligated because you already put so much time in. This opinion is probably going to be unpopular, but just feel it’s better to take time to feel things out in the country first, see how people are in their own environment.

    I know people got lonely and bored during the pandemic. If you do have to go online, keep it platonic and don’t commit to anything serious until you get to the Philippines and spend time there.

  54. “Generic friendliness” that pretty much sums it up. Honestly, if a girl says she needs time alone to think after you have met in person, you should “read the room” I agree that she is 100% right. Before you even start to build a relationship you need to cover the basics, where to live, kids, career, future plans etc. Meeting someone online is a screening process before you meet in person if you actually make it that far.

  55. I can’t imagine what about Ed could have put Rose off…I mean isn’t he every woman’s idea of the perfect man 🤔

    Dang it’s weird how Ed can’t even turn his “no-neck,” but has to rotate his entire upper body around to see on his sides 😳

    15:25 Total stink-eye 😂😂😂

    20:36 If looks could kill 🤣🤣🤣

    Meeting Ed would have put me off men too (if I was a 👩 👰‍♂) And what’s it like knowing you’re the kind of guy that makes women start batting for the other team 🤔

  56. I’ve been hookwd on 90 Day Fiance since rgw 1st season ! Following 6 Youtube reality show reviewers. Your review is the Best Accurate cause your 9 years here in Ph. I goofed to get engaged after meeting my ex-wife in person after 2 weeks in Nueva Ecija,Ph (3 months messagibg after friend acceptance on facebook. About to temp reside in Nevada 6 weeks to Divorxe after 2 years seperation & she supposedly spent last of my 401k = P2.8M in 14 months ?! Yipes !! Careful guys Not to dive-in too fast !!!!

  57. Don’t fool yourselves, it was never about the lies, it was never about not wanting children, it was all about not being physically attracted to him. “Not wanting kids” was just the out she was using.

    Like most expats/tourist who are older and/or out of shape and think they can attract a beautiful and younger woman on appearance alone is sadly mistaking regardless if she’s a Filipina, American, Chinese ect.
    If you’re not attractive in one country odds are you’re not attractive in other countries and you better have something else to offer like good personality or even better a fat wallet.
    Any woman from any country can look pass physical appearance and age(to some degree) as long as there is a good personality and most of all financial stability.

    So all of you old and unattractive expats/tourist(you know who you are) need to ask yourselves this, if I can’t pull a young and beautiful woman in my home country why is it i can do it in a 2nd or 3rd world country hmmm?

  58. The Filipina I dated (in the west) was fantastic. I am not willing to let this ruin that good impression. But I want to watch Reekay. So I learned I could skip clips:
    Clip 1 starts 2:14 ends 4:01
    Clip 2 starts 5:18 ends 6:06
    Clip 3 starts 8:03 ends 8:30
    Clip 4 starts 12:32 ends 15:27
    Clip 5 starts 19:50 ends 20:41
    Clip 6 starts 27:32 ends 28:57

  59. thanks again for good content. as i watch many channels i pick up tidbits of information. the after the fact gift expectation was a new one. thank you. something to look out for. fore warned is fore armed. i am reminded of the saying. ” dont say i didnt warn you”

  60. Time marches on but you are right,when it’s birthday time or Xmas suddenly they appear again out of nowhere with the hand out for gifts,learnt that lesson early in the piece.

  61. so the broad couldn’t of asked him if he wanted kids, if it was supposedly so damn important to her? before he takes leave from work, travel plans, a 20 hour $1,000 plane ride? give me a break, and reekay of course you side with her, she bears responsibility too, she’s a nit wit

  62. In all fairness a lot of these stories are scripted. Ed did this at least three time to her. the bad breath the sister begging money from him the no kids plus he had planned to get a vasectomy. Even when he went to her house he was upset cause he had some skin issue and she wanted him to sleep on a foam and the rats walking around the room. I mean the art he played was that of a disillusioned school boy thinking he was getting his first piece of axx. But the points you made were spot on. If he had said al these things except the money begging before he went there then they probably would not gotten together. And they did have sex they both said But again points well made. And remember the show is scripted Thanks for an awesome Video GOD bless

  63. My wife and I have watched 90 Day Fiance for a long time and I have to say that alot of what you see on that show is staged for the drama, but at the same time, I find that the thing that bugs me the most is that the Americans in these relationships seem to be clueless about the culture of their significant other. Like Ed. He seemed totally unprepared and shocked by what he experienced in The Philippines. I think anyone who plans to start a relationship with someone from another country should either visit that country a few times first, research the culture or both.

  64. Excellent video! Its good to see a Filipina expert share thoughts on this couple. Not sure if Ed was serious or just in it to get some action. Another goofy couple is Tariq and Hazel. The other american + Filipina couples that have been on the show are pretty normal, and all are still married.

  65. Hello Henry, I am 54 with four grown sons and I never thought about having more children. But My Future wife is a 29 year old Filipina with no children of her own. I have known her for over 4 years now. I will be bringing her to America soon. I think that if she wants a child of her own it is my responsibly to give her the Family that she wants. Take care.

  66. This reality show was so unreal as can be. It was a s*#tshow from the get go and this relationship should have been aborted at the airport ( sorry, abortion is illegal) in the Philippines. But again, TLC had to milk it for more camera time.

  67. What a horrible start . I don’t need to ask what happens because in 1 minute I learned more then his previous 3 months . Why did they pick this liar to begin with . She’s shocked

  68. Hahaha – OMG this was so funny. Obviously scripted for the drama but the facial expressions from both of these character was so intense. At one point – I thought I was married again !! LOL

  69. So they each had their 15 minutes of fame. Nice to dream about the fantasy, but reality brings people down to earth. Always appreciate your frankness on all of your vlogs.

  70. Great learning lesson.as you have always said be upfront and honest from the beginning, do not give these young ladies or anyone for that matter false hopes thanks for sharing this great content. 👍

  71. His problem is that he’s not used to chatting with hot girls, so he didn’t want to possibly lose this one by saying he doesn’t want kids…But he doesn’t realize this is not American girls, if she would’ve left for that reason he doesn’t realize how fast he could’ve found another Filipina that doesn’t mind not having kids….That’s why guys got to date many Filipinas before committing…Trust me it’s so easy even if you’re not the greatest looking guy in the world.

  72. I followed this story on TLC 90 day fiance & Reekay your right on time with your observations of thier relationship .you correct he lied & used her in a way because he didn’t think he could get a younger philliphina .to be interested in him he doesn’t have any self confidence in his self & he did disrespect her .& I’m glad she got away from Eddie

  73. This was super fun to watch and learn from this video!!
    If there are any other Foreigner & Filipina relationships on 90 Day Fiancé, please do more commentary’s!!!

  74. No young women being with a old guy is really in love, it’s only for money. The only fellow Americans or other western men who thinks the young women regardless of race really loves them are disolutional

  75. Yes my Filipino woman after one year online when we finally met in person at the airport no kiss yet a beautiful smile and hug let me know she was happy to see me ! Her family came with her checked me out at the airport but once we got private in the van back to the city when she ask to move to the back of the van then I got the vibe she wanted me closer we then kissed and then after many more kisses and now we are married couple years later ,yes she is older in her early 50sand me we I turned 60 together with her and yes she was province lady !

  76. Well Ed could try getting a treadmill or a bicycle and toning up a bit, maybe grab a few new clothes.. I blame Rose because she was only using the baby issue to break it off. If Ed was a GQ then the baby issue would not matter and she would be the one staying in the relationship hoping to convince him.. His height wasn’t even an issue either. If he was clean and toned a little, different story. Filipinas don’t like fat dudes, yeah if you sling enough $ they will marry you lol but you need to lose that fat or they will dump ya. It is what it is.

  77. Its a scam because the anger in her eyes, tells it all. “If” you really had feelings for another person and wanted to break it off you would do it gently. This was mostly acting for the camera with tiny bit of truth.

  78. I really enjoyed your commentary about these two even how you exposed everything with both people.Thanks.I know people can learn from you as you give good advice.thanks

  79. Wait what?? She breaks up with him cause he didn’t want kids, but then she starts a relationship with a woman that obviously can’t get her pregnant? smh

  80. I got sucked into this because my wife is native Filipina I brought to America. In that second video, if you can’t read the look on Rose’s face you don’t deserve a relationship.

  81. I can relate to this video. My x wife who is a Filipina used me to came to America and I told her before she came here I will not be having kids. She said ok but it was a lie .She is happy now because she used me to come to America it was her free ride and I ticket in. Now she can go find a guy to have a kid with. She wasted 7 years of my life!

  82. I wish a female would contact me after months of not talking to me, asking me, what’s my gift.. She gone get her feelings hurt, because ain’t got nothing but d*ck and bubble gum, and I’m fresh outta bubble gum.

  83. This is why I really don’t think online dating is no good, you use up so much emotional energy connecting with someone online to then meet in person and one or both people realize the person in front of them isn’t the same person they had imagined in their head. Dating online is just like playing some online game, it is not real, yes some might make it but some might also win the lottery.

  84. Yes I’ve had matchmakers from two separate websites that do this on a daily basis and have countless success stories but both have told me be open and honest about everything I don’t know what website he found her on but I’m certain I’m not going there

  85. When starting a new relationship and after that as well, you need to be straight up honest with a Filipina. They will not put up with that sort of thing. You should be straight up honest whether she is Filipina or not, period.

  86. The height thing is a big deal, because he lied about it. Not only is he shorter than her, he’s lied about his height. He also lied to her about having kids. He’s a horrible person. Rose deserves better.

  87. Yes the height thing really stood out.he was so wrong on all fronts,usually chatting online the girl will say her HT and expect you to do like wise ,but apparently he Lied about that,thats why she was taken aback when they met.first lie.guess she now thinking what else has he lied about.then to travel to Ph after 3 months to say he does not want kids, that’s laughable

  88. Very good analysis, but I’m shocked at how ugly the guy is… No way she was staying with him no matter what, you can see the horrified disgust in her whole face on the second clip. She would have definitely come up with another reason if needed, but I think that one was brilliant because it was the most unexpected reason possible.

  89. Considering all things said about Rose 🌹 and No Neck Ed, I’ve watched the entire series from start to finish, about a year ago. However, I honestly believe that she is right in a lot of ways, and also believe what you’ve said about her contacting him first…my point here is, it’s the exact same way I first heard from my now Filipina wife, for the past 4 years. But thank goodness, everything worked out well 🙏 and we’re back and forth between the USA 🇺🇸 and the Philippines 🇵🇭 we’re also lucky to homes 🏡 in both countries, and also a beautiful daughter ❤ stay safe my friend. As for Ed, he turned out to be a jerk, and Rose 🌹 has moved on with betterment in her life.

  90. Thanks Reekay for this content. I have been not fully feeling healthy recently so this was welcomed as something I could watch without investing much energy. Subject matter is on my radar and more can’t hurt.

  91. Reekay, you made good points about Ed withholding and procrastinating, but as you watch every episode you will see clearly that her intention is not good. She is a drama queen from the get-go and rude. She is also secretive about personal things and would rather fight than divulge her past. It is obvious she has no feeling for him, but only cares about bettering her financial status.

    Yes, openness and honesty is a necessity. Lay it on the table and see where it leads you. Don’t waste precious time with someone that has different goals than you do. Thanks for posting this.

  92. “I used her, she used me, but neither one cared” – Bob Seger. “Ed” is the typical nerd that travels to a foriegn country and has a girl that would NEVER! talk to him in the USA, but this gilr has sex with him. Guys like “Ed’ are everywhere, you see them all the time. I’ve seen them crying, tears running down their face, because a “bargirl” that told him, she would love him, but went with another ” John”

  93. Had a question..in a previous video , It seemed like you downplayed the Filipino cupid site, yet recommended the Christian Filipino site. Just wondered Cupid not worth money?

  94. I paused video, you say it’s a red flag because they video chatted for three months and haven’t met yet. I think that ridiculous. Not everyone is retired dude and some do have jobs and have to schedule vacation. And also I alot of people meet online first now. Especially if filipinas are meeting foreign guys.

  95. I learned a troll with no neck from USA has a chance in the Philippines, even though I am sure she was into him mostly for a trip out of the Philippines and a greencard to USA. I think she is a tomboy as well. Very odd couple in my opinion…..

  96. Pure insanity!!! You really can not make this stuff up. He lied to her about wanting kids. She lied to him about being straight. She gets upset, so much so that she ends the relationship because having a kid is her dream. But, then…she immediately jumps in to a relationship with a girl…who she is obviously incapable of producing a kid together with. OMG!!! 😆😁

  97. No common interests or respect between them. It was doomed from the start. My observation is that Rose is more into girls than guys.She wasn’t truthful herself.
    There are a lot of lesbians in the Philippines who will create babies with you for that financial support.
    I think Ed was right to ask her for an STD test ,but he should of took one too.

  98. The situation is obvious. She’s very pretty and trim and he is profoundly unattractive coupled with morbidly obese and didn’t even try to make himself more appealing. What the hell does he expect.

  99. “Often you don’t know whether a woman is friend, enemy or lover until it is too late. Sometimes, she is all three.” ― Robert Jordan; Norman Mailer — ‘You don’t know a woman until you’ve met her in court.’

  100. Ed is in modern parlance as what’s known as a simp .. these beta males are clueless how attraction works and the underlying dating dynamics btw men and women in ALL cultures and countries ..

  101. To be fear he acted bad, in the way of not being sincere regarding phisycal matters or having kids, but also i see she is using all these things to make it bigger as excuse to break up, underneath her there is a real thought that says:” oh my…what will i do with this ugly dwarf..” i dont like her, it is my opinion,isee her like very rude and impulsive, also she is not my style, too dark skin, and not pretty face, so the dwarf did not miss the big deal….

  102. I just love this video especially from 14:10 forward. The look she gives him at 15:28 – 19:54 says it all, I am sorry but I am almost rolling laughing at this guy.

  103. i dont know what sound system you use but it’s always very clear and reasonable volume,alot of vloggers sound is Terrible, strain to hear what they say.

  104. I’m not a player. I don’t have a lot of experience with Filipinas and less with western women. I have noticed, as a general rule, that for most people the level of honesty is inversely proportional to how sweet a deal will get wrecked by revealing information the other party might consider a deal killer. Most people can be brutally honest when they don’t have much riding on it, less so when they have something to lose. Sadly, this is the exact opposite of what you need for a happy, stress free life.

  105. Good stuff Reekay!!! I just found your channel…subscribed…honestly I can’t stand modern television let alone reality shows…makes me gag. But there are so many truths to your content. Be honest is a big one. And slow the hell down…and lastly stop being so desperate and lay off the doughnuts and hit the gym…that part I really don’t understand. Peace and I am happy I found your channel!!!

  106. These are paid actors, nothing else. They probably film 100+ couples and choose the 10 most awkward/stupid ones because they know it sells. Seriously, most older guys (50+) who found “love” in Asia will be taken to the cleaners sooner than later. How bad depends on how smart you are and how soon you pull out.

  107. Please god! Someone tell me how to connect with a women like this? If women out there are that desperate for No-Neck-Ed? I would be considered Tom Cruise! Well a black Tom Cruise !

  108. 10:45 – that was totally my feeling also. There are lot of signs in her body language that communicates that she is not attracting to him at all. The poor guy is basically floating on air though, but thats one-sided. For example when they say “I love you” at 8:20, its easy to see that she is not honest. But she is polite and didnt want to humilate the guy.

  109. Thanks Reekay, for this analysis of relationship and sharing experiences and knowledge on how courage and your honesty is best way to start a good relationship with a Filipino lady.
    The roller coaster 🎢 of life as many ups, down and turns and a twists that shakes and shapes your journey. And many thrills of excitement and quiet upward momentum. I needed this advise at this moment and realise my journey is shaped by my actions and how I react to any situation 🙃 and need to enjoy the ride and except those good feelings as that moment of time. Thank you again 🙏 God bless.

  110. Its was funny,, 90 Day Fiancee actually contacted me, I made it clear in a very un Christian like manner to stick it and that they were destroying possible relationships(this Guy was not one of those). As i sit here in the USA with my wife planning our future in Cebu,,, I am so glad i did not ruin it and our special time (first meeting), all 3 trips, initial, 20 day trip and the go get her trip was an amazing adventure and it is our life now,, not the social media.FYI,, we talked a year and a half before we met, his first mistake,,,

  111. Oh boy that is so over in the second clip. I can’t believe that dude.That’s the big breaking of trust. He sabotaged himself. Yep, she now knows that he can’t be trusted. You have to be compatible to begin with.

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