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  2. Great Video Reekay . 100% agree how important discernment is. I was chatting with a gal online from Phil once and she kept sending me links to the most lavish resort around and hinting we should stay there when i get there. Like $250-300 a night! So i saw that as a red flag that shes a high maintenance gold digger or just want to use me “for a good time”. Moved on. Not traveling across the world to spend more than i do in USA on a date.

  3. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck… Chances are pretty high that it’s a duck 🦆….But these guys all think their girls are different…

  4. Excellent Video with sound advice. You put your finger on something people can never understand. All my life I have been told I have the gift of decrement. That is why I have never been scammed I can spot a lie for that truth and Good from evil easily. I was in an LDR for 9 months & when I came here to be with her over 2 years ago It wasn’t like meeting for the first time. She was exactly what I expected and still is.

  5. Hey Reekay my friend, you hit the nail on the head. I have spent more than 2 years with my Filipina fiancée in person. She is definitely a great woman. We trust each other fully. And she has a knack for calling out people that has bad intentions. Once I get back to the Philippines, we will be married. Still to this day, she doesn’t ask me for anything. Thank you my friend for sharing this awesome video. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you and Vi always.😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  6. Anyway to check if she was/is married?. How far does the being with separated Filipino laws go?. I’m seeing on dating sites a lot of separated women.

  7. nope me been married 2 times both filipina 20 yrs first and second is 18yrs now i think more just wating so we can go back to our new house we rebuilt that was shock my wife rebuilt our house on top of old one well this covid has stopped us going there up in Nailon near Bogo soon we get out flu vax’s soon and then we can go there

  8. I had one , made her my Fiance , her Daughter called me dad. was with her for 2 years and started to discover her lies .. very very long one year story of searching and talking to her family I find out she has a husband and actually 5 kids along with 13 fake fb accounts full of men. I lost over 20 thousand Canadian her name .. Mary Ann Gigantone .. Rodriguez Rizal , stay away men she is a pro at telling stories.

  9. There is no school on life, a person has to get out there, fall down and skin their knees, get their fingers burned, get kicked in the ass and most important have their feelings hurt. Hopefully after a while this guy you mentioned will learn how to assess people, unfortunately some people never learn and their life is a living hell! Oh well.. shit happens!

  10. Thank you Reekay for that very honest and direct advice to all … the Pinay is not the solution for your broken take your time and be smart!! Take your time.!! Don’t be stupido.

  11. I couldn’t agree with you more about the online thing i wouldn’t bleave anything a person online told me.
    There’s ways to know if a person is up to no good personally i won’t put up with any bs as soon as i see the first signs of dishonesty there out the door faster than they came in i had a girl steal 1000 pesso in manila i put her out at 3 am as soon as i noticed the money gone good video thanks for sharing

  12. Good video… The guy sounds like he has never met her…I think long distance relationships are just friendships..When you finally meet you might not like her as a girlfriend . The same goes with her she might not like you as a boyfriend.. So always look at it as a long distant friendship only.

  13. You sir are a wise sage… Call it as we see it without rose colored glasses on. Though in the states till 2020 then I can return. Trying the online dating now to see who I meet. Have been chatting with one for about 7 weeks on a daily basis. Won’t let me even give her a gift though she is poised with open arms to welcome me when I come there. I have yet to ask why she is still on the dating site and checks it daily. I hide my profile a month ago and noted it to her…. another life mystery to solve.

  14. There’s one more thing to consider. If you’re pretty old, and you don’t have many years left and all you need is a little puntang now & then, and you can afford a bit of your pension each month for food & whatever with her, why not. It don’t really matter what she’s like. Just pretend she’s American and feel right at home. No one can love you when your dead anyway. Enjoy yourself and don’t worry about the rest of the world.🙃😵✌️Make sure she burys you in the back yard. That will save her bux in the end. I think I have a good filipina, but I still want buried out back ⚰️🥀💀

  15. Great video. 13:46 sums it well. 85% of men are non-select (geography doesn’t change that). Sadly, most will make rationalizations to justify marriage, visa petitions and having babies just to get the love fix (what our father’s did). I find 100% of the time it’s about MANipulation as I’m not tall young stud. So, the first conversation ends in about 30 seconds. They can tell my ATM pays by my rules and I don’t need traditional gender roles. So, they don’t need me. Peace.

  16. Lots of good advice on this channel. I wish the internet existed 35 years ago.

    I was penpals in the 1980s with two filipinas. With the first one, I had bought a plane ticket to the Philippines to see her. I phoned her beforehand, because I needed contact info for when I arrived. Her sister answered the phone, and told me that she wasn’t there – she had married a German guy and gone to Germany!! And I thought I was the only one! Lost money on the ticket.

    Afterwards, I was writing a second filipina. I sent her money because of family troubles. Gradually I noticed that she wasn’t really answering my questions and whole paragraphs were the exact same as in previous letters. Scammed – I cut her off.

    That turned me off the Philippines, and I eventually married a Chinese Malaysian. Been married 34 years.
    Still, I aways wondered what would have happened if the Philippines worked out.

  17. I can hear Christianity sprinkled throughout your talk. Not in a religious kind of way but like a Jesus teaching kind of way—in the way of relationship talk to the boys…Great stuff!

  18. I always say that words typed on a computer screen may be a front to your heart, your wallet, or your ego. Spend lots of time video chatting and some time being together not only with her but with her family and friends. The REAL her would come out soon!

  19. I was taking notes diligently . THEN @15:55 “the difference between and apple and a banana..” Well, Reekay, as you know, I have an apple and you have a pin. Let me say it again. Apple. Pin…. APPLE. PIN… I think that should help at least some guys in their dating successes. #babyShark

  20. Cant trust them after 10 years married atleast mine has a hard time telling the truth even if its something simple just took it as her upbringing.

  21. I’ve got the key to the highway.
    No one knows or can take care of me as well as I do. Don’t ever think someone else will do it for you. It ain’t gonna happen.
    Make yourself a great day, cause no one else will do it for you.

  22. Hey Henry, Curtis in Las Vegas.. I’ll be Condo searching in Cebu in July. Probably near Ayala Mall.
    After the lock down, I know you’re itching to travel, not sure if you’ll be keeping your base there in Cebu.
    Hoping to hang out, share some laughs and buy you guys a couple of lunches.
    If you remember the conversation we shared in HoChiMinh, I LOVE Thailand but it’s not the same connection and humor you will have with a Pinay. So.. coming to Cebu July 2nd.

  23. A guy told me one time, “Don’t let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner…..

  24. And most important rule here ladies and Gents… If she aint no virgin… no reason to pay a dime for her either…. if a local took that when she was 12, just change lady…. how hard can it be….???

  25. Sir you always have great advice you’ve helped me through some things that are met on women online and I have learned to stop letting a little head do the thinking for the big one

  26. I found this women on Filipino Cupid she said she lives in a 8 bedroom 9.9 million php house somewhere in Cavite City cousin that is in France owns the house all her expenses are paid but food. she said I need you to make more than 2000 usd a month when you come over here to live she said I’m going to need more like 6k to 10k a month
    what are your thoughts?

  27. Reekay, another great down to earth video. There are a lot of women in butuan city area. That are users, always wanting something bought, ordering lazada expecting you to pay for it when it arrives. Also there are some that do not go out with you in public, not sure why that is but it happens. Trust, is a vey big item in a relationship. They like to be very fast for a relationship, and live with you that is a bad option.

  28. Very good advice that is does not matter whom has issues: you start with attraction, compatibility, and longevity. If this is assured, then trust will complete the deal.

  29. More great advice 👍. Thank you for sharing this with us. One thing I would like to point out is many of us are not at the retirement phase in our lifes. So to try to spend a year with someone face to face that is 12,000 miles away is a hard task. It would mean you would have to commit to her after X amount of time over a computer. Plus, meeting her face to face. While you have used your vacation time from work. Like you said you can be anybody you want to be on a computer or phone. So if you are lucky to have picked a good Filipina. That you can bring her to your country. This would be the time that you find out all the things you talked about in this video.

  30. I have no clue why someone would stick around when he’s being lied to; folks, the Philippines have some of the most beautiful women around. Period.

  31. 👍 There is a phrase “Look with your ears listen with your eyes” not everything is what it seems even in real life some are very good at keeping up a facade for a time as said “discernment and self disipline” will sort the wheat n chaff .

  32. Must have a plan for the balance of need for trust and comfort…and the inevitable human need for fresh and exciting experiences….got a plan stan?

  33. If you don’t have 3 months….crash get real…7 days no phones, no relatives, no bars….just the two of you. If you cannot make 7 days of hyper-close…no chance.

  34. Ghost them at their first lie and never look back. This is good practical advice that anyone should follow, not just those dating a Filipina. And yes it’s true, anyone can put on an act for three months. I’m shocked at the number of people who are willing to propose/make significant financial commitments within two weeks of knowing someone IRL (or even virtually for that matter).

  35. I think that you could do an entire video of how to identify mercenary women and Filipinas in general. People need to be informed of the scams as the scammers are getting smarter and smarter.

  36. What do you see , and hear, time is the real test of trust. Your Lust is not Trust, with Boots on the ground your able to see what’s Real over Time.
    Over the years Reekay you have Given Great Discernment in Relationships.

  37. I have an older gf for over 1year and met her 2 adult son and daughter on video chats. Have seen pictures or video chats with sisters and cousins. Yes family is what you consider poor there. Yes I send $200 now each month. I have cleaned up my debt and saving to come over when country opens. I know her personality and appreciate her frugal use of money.

  38. Good blog as usual Henry. Boy, I could write a bbok on this subject. I think the biggest problem for most people expats is they bring their history of thinking with them to the Philippines. We create excuses for the woman here who treat us badly as we did for those woman who we had relationships with in our home country. Most men come here because of a history of bad relationships at home. They see it but are used to it and too often rationalize the bad behavior. Yes she steals, pulls tampo for a week at a time 2 or 3 times a month, and will have sex only on her time qnd obviously is just using me BUT she has never tried to kill me. Many men, including myself, have never had a really good relationship to compare it to, the really good relationship is what other guys have.

  39. I have a few possible women in Cebu. but before I go back to Cebu I need a private investigator to do some simple surveillance to see how they live, and if what they tell me is true. It will be expensive. But far cheaper than to be scammed and hurt again.

  40. 100% save the heart ache, best way I find is meet one that is educated and both parents married and both work . Then look at there friends if there friends are good people all have jobs and are good girls then your off to a good start. If she doesn’t take you around them or their sketchy watch out.

  41. Hi. I like all your videos. I wanted to ask you what are the registrations and requirements for a foreigner earning income from YouTube while stationed in ph on srrv.

  42. Reekay, it would be really great if you kept making videos with these types of topics. I know your video library is full of a lot of videos on relationships but, have to say, this one was Gold! And more would be awesome!

  43. reekey who is this trash andy omar that talk shit behind you. i guess he needs to mind his own business. i remember long time ago also there was another crab who talk behind you when you were in dumaguete. why they can not keep their head in their own shell??? do your work brother f… them. he better cover his tatoo first coz those tatoo shows who he is

  44. True discernment is from n led by the Lord, the master n source n fountain of it. The Lord gives all a chance w him. Yet, time tells whether we will truly honor him w our deeds. U spoke very very well Reekay

  45. You are 100% correct Reekay in everything you say !! I would not trust any Filipina anymore I don’t think. So many like to steal and cheat in my opinion after spending four years there. I guess I just found some bad ones but came home with a beautiful son. His 14th birthday is next month and I am wondering if this year she will remember his birthday. All your advice is like gold.

  46. Jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame.🔥Song of Solomon 8:6
    By the way, Solomon had 700 wives and 400 concubines with other women. It’s good to be king👑!! How in hell, can we get any direction from anywhere. It’s a dog eat dog world. Jealousy is natural, constant, horrible and there is no escape. We need to get used to it and the only cure is to be like Solomon. I doubt very much he had a jealous bone 🦴 in his body. 😂🤣😆 So, in reality, if you only have one woman without a backup plan, you are setting yourself up for potential disaster.⚠️

  47. What do you think about hiring a private investigator? It seems like no problem for an online relationship. What idea would you have on choosing a private investigator , from afar. I have been in the Philippines before, the relationship that I had didn’t really work out because of incompatibility.During that time a lot of facts came to light, that if I had known they would’ve influenced my behavior. Thank you, Another good video.

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